You can't unconditionally love or accept OTHERS when you condemn yourself for doing certain things..... You also can't love/accept YOURSELF when you condemn others for doing certain things. We are all a beautiful expression of life, JUST AS WE ARE. The little habits/things about others you can't get over are typically small things that you are hard on yourself about...These habits or traits simply make us human they don't make us "good" OR "bad" and they certainly DON'T define us.... Hmmm........Thanks Petra!